Today was spent entirely in Assisi. Mary Kay and got up early to walk up the hill to the retreat area and sanctuary that St. Francis and his followers had used. We knew it was a 3 mile walk, but didn’t realize it was uphill all the way.
When we reached the top it was a very peaceful place. You could easily see how the solitude and simplicity of the area would be a good place to contemplate. Many of the prayer rooms inside could only be reached by very small hallways and stairs. One person had to bend over just to go through them. Even the meeting area was austere. A long table and wooden benches with frescoes painted on the wall. At one point I remarked as I grabbed a handrail going up a stairs that St. Francis would have grabbed that handrail in the same spot. Outside there was a walk through the woods with a stone altar. We were so happy that we had taken the time to walk up. It was very meaningful and gave us another opportunity to say a few special prayers in a very sacred place.
As we walked back down we passed many more people making the walk up. We have noticed several “scouting” type groups. All of them seem to be made of upper teens and perhaps kids in their early twenties. I understand that they are actually groups that travel as educational experiences. I believe that one other time I mentioned that it would be near impossible to get our young kids to wear these uniforms. We also passed a group of high school students from Sweden. They were definitely not dressed in uniforms (some were barely dressed) and most seemed very out of shape.
When we got back to the apartment I finished Thursday’s blog and posted it. Then we went out to do a little more shopping. We went to the church where the cross that spoke to St. Francis was displayed. During St. Francis’s time the church and Europe was in a time of religious need. When St. Francis was praying he heard a voice come from the cross that basically said that he was to go out and heal the church. St. Francis became a very well respected and powerful spokesperson of the Catholic Church. As we were leaving the church we decided to go to the basement where St. Claire’s tomb was. We were so glad that we did. The church had many relics of both St. Clair and St. Francis on display. There were tunics that St. Francis wore, his book of writings, a stocking and shoe he wore after receiving the stigmata (wounds on the hands, feet, and side like those that Christ suffered). Again all this made the place we were in (Assisi) even more meaningful and made it even more real.
After a rest we all went out for our last meal together. Greg had walked all over Assisi that morning to take in as many of the sites as he could before we left. He had found a nice restaurant and made reservations for supper. It turned out to be the perfect place. We ate on the patio overlooking the hillside. There were century old buildings, the Cathedral of St. Francis, and a great sunset over the mountains. The meal was once again delicious!! Our two week vacation together was a wonderful time. Traveling with six people in a van, on unfamiliar roads could be a formula for disaster. It wasn’t! We all really care about each other. We often say that Sharon and Greg are part of our family. Even though we only see Ian and Ruth every 3, 5, or even 15 years – they are family too. When we are together it is like we have all been with each other just last week! We will miss each other but we have many memories, pictures, and souvenirs to bring back this time. We will see each other again!
Mary Kay would love to stay in Assisi! |
We all had breakfast together then Ian and Ruth dropped us off at the train station. They were off to Germany to meet up with Sarah before flying back to Australia. It was time to say “Good-bye” – and also “See you.” We will!
On the train ride to Rome we met a young man from California. It was good to be able to talk to someone else who spoke English and compare notes about our trip. He had been in Italy with his mother, brothers and sisters and some of his mother's friends celebrating her birthday. It sounded like they had a great time, also. One thing they were able to experience that Mary Kay had hoped for was a cooking lesson. That is something we will have to plan for next time. He has a small vineyard in California and is hoping to begin bottling his own wine within the next year or so. He had planned to do it this year, but a couple of deer got into his vineyard and ate the vines. He will produce Pinot Grigio and Chardonnay. We gave him our information and perhaps we will be able to take a trip out there in the near future. Maybe a bike ride through the vineyards. It was nice to talk with him and we all wish him well. After arriving in Rome we had a few drinks and supper together while talking about our fantastic vacation. We made our plans for meeting again in Chicago and went to bed for our last night in Italy. We are returning on different flights, once again. Hopefully, we will have an easier time finding each other when we get back to Chicago.
I am writing this as we are flying home. It is so difficult to share our feelings through this blog. As much as anything it is a journal for us of our trip, but I hope that you were able to get a sense of what we were feeling and doing. Leaving Europe or any other vacation behind is always bitter-sweet, but knowing that we have the memories and that we shared it all together, means so much.
It will be great to get back to family and the birth of our new grandchild tomorrow! Please take care of your family – share experiences – and love for each other!
Our last look at Assisi from the train station |
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PEACE and Arriverdeci!!!
PS - Mary Kay and I got back to the US pretty much on schedule. When I turned on my phone I had a phone message from Greg. Their connecting flight in New York was canceled and they have to spend another night in New York. They plan to take a bus shuttle to South Bend on Monday and I will pick them up that evening.